24-year-old fiancée calls off wedding with suspicious partner, after discovering she is seeing and texting two male coworkers until early hours of the morning: 'She wouldn’t even look at me in the car'

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Emma Saven
Jul 28, 2025 2:00 PM EDT

How can you be with someone who doesn't value your trust and is taking such blatant advantage of you that they aren't even trying to hide it? 

A relationship doesn't always have to be perfect, but when your fiancée is running around town at 2 a.m. with her male coworkers (alone) while you're left sitting unable to sleep, there may be a slight problem. The thing that makes dishonesty in a relationship even worse is the excuses that have had zero thought put into them. 

I mean, if you're going to be disloyal, surely try to hide it better?!?

This soon-to-be married couple is heading for the rocks, actually, their boat is already sitting on the ocean floor. Deleting texts, picking up hobbies that other men like, leaving their mutual job, and still hanging out regularly. Any fiancée would be left rethinking their whole relationship and whether their partner is being fully transparent with them. 

In this case…Some vows made at the altar may have to be rewritten, because this is definitely not giving, "I vow to be faithful and true."

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  • Through thick and thin just became extremely thicker. And we're not quite sure this vulnerable fiancée is going to make it through to reach the chapel. So hold on tight, and brace yourself for the engagement-unravel of the month. This one ought to sting! 

    Read for yourselves to find out more about the crackling foundation of this relationship. You know what they say, relationships are built on trust, so we're not quite sure this relationship has what it takes to stand the test of time…

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    111 "I felt our relationship was getting distant and confessed I didn't like her hanging out with other guys so often.
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    I broke up with my gf because she broke my trust

    Recently, I (24M) broke up with fiancé (25F) because she was hanging out with two guys from her old work place. Just background, we dated for 7 years
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    and about 3 months ago she started working at a restaurant which she recently quit. I noticed that after starting she'd stay out late at night (past 4am, the
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    restaurant closes at 11pm). She'd say she's just hanging out with coworkers because she's stressed and I'd be okay with that initially.
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    Eventually, she's out every day even when she doesn't work with two male coworkers and she picked up running and other hobbies as well because theyre into them.
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    I told her that I felt our relationship was getting more and more distance and confessed I didn't like her hanging out with other guys so often. She kinda
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    brushed it off and said I was overreacting. Fast forward, our relationship takes a turn for the worse as she wouldn't even look at me in the car, constantly on
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    her phone smiling while texting. I find out when she lets me go on her phone that she texts the other guys late into the night and
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    when we're together making plans to hang out. I asked her to cut them off because her texts are getting flirty
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    and she said she would because our relationship matters. The next day I find on her phone that she planned to see one of the guys at the restaurant she used to work
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    at with her female friend. When I confronted her, she said it was just to say last goodbyes. She had already texted them emotional goodbyes two days prior which I
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    had to find out on my own after she deleted the messages. I broke up with her on the spot and told her that if she was willing to go behind my back to
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    meet up and text these guys (one more specifically than the other), then she definitely had feelings for him. Other friends of ours noticed this as well and told her it
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    did look like she had feelings. She denies it and wants to get back together. I told her it might not have been physical, but she emotionally cheated on me. I
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    watched her smile more with the other guy than she had with me for the 3 months she worked at the restaurant. I gave her 3 chances to cut them off, am I the ah le?
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    Power_and_Science You can't trust her, so the relationship is over.
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    Agreeable-Pirate-705 You're never going to know the whole story here, dude. She's clearly gatekeeping bc she wants the control of the narrative. You made the only logical and healthy decision for yourself. That doesn't mean it's gonna hurt any less, even if she's the one at fault.
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    Vyckerz NTA - you made the right call. She allowed herself to get emotionally attached to the guys and one. especially to point she had to have "emotional goodbyes" ffs! She had no regard for your relationship. Even after cutting them off she had to make another date to meet him. That was the last straw and I agree completely with your decision.
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    Mike0Eggs You did good man. Most can't even do what you just did
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    grayblue_grrl NTA.... Sounds like she's got other things on her mind than you and your relationship.
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    hippocampfire She definitely seems addicted to new attention
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